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in late 2006, relocated my angst, business, and social life to NoCal from SoCal ... just a 40-something chick in the 'burbs of the SF bay area who randomly posts about random topics ... the occasional quirky stories of dating (or not) at 40-ish, work-week cubeopolis frivolity, rambling musings on nostalgika, and the occasional introspective moments in life.(thanks for visiting! >p, b)

Friday, May 29, 2009

cCacao+ clan: day 7 evening

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last login ... logged in yesterday twice over here for part i and part ii with ending stats at 3 clickety-clack:20 tbd.

day 7 evening ... well, i got 8 more matches since yesterday. and i'm starting out my evening at 4 clickety clack:24 tbd (and 31 closed, which means a total of 59 matches to date) have 1 new clickety-clack and 3 people closed me out. the reasons cited besides other include ... i'm pursuing another relationship ... i want to pursue other matches. (thank you for a non-"other" statement.)

short break, sponsored by sacto floyd ... a couple of posts ago (over here) on day 4, sacto floyd commented as follows:
"Someone needs to start up an online dating service called Mismatch.com. This would be based on the theory that opposites attract and would use all the people that didn't match your criteria. You can then alternate between dating peeps from match and mismatch.com.

On average, dating people from match.com and mismatch.com ought to get you backtowhereyoustarted.com. At worst, you'd end up on screwedandnotlikingit.com.

Hmm, on second thought..."
opposite evening ... i called sacto floyd to thank him for his comment. then we got to talking. and what seinfeld t.v. episode do you think we talked about? yup! the opposite - the episode which includes the following george costanza lines:
"Yeah. No, no, no, wait a minute, I always have tuna on toast. Nothing's ever worked out for me with tuna on toast. I want the complete opposite of on toast. Chicken salad, on rye, untoasted ... and a cup of tea."

"I'm the opposite of every guy you've ever met"
tomorrow shall be opposite day ... i'm going to start communications with people i might otherwise close out (although lean profiles excluded).

today shall be business as usual ... for this evening, i'll go with what i'd normally do because i pooped out yesterday. (and i'm pressing the find new matches, just to see if anyone else is added - nada.) here goes. and now for day 7 evening ...
  • matches still to clickety-clack = 16
  • clickety-clacking = 8 (am waiting for 7 to respond and for 1 to take it to the next step)
  • closed out = 35 (i closed out 2 more this evening)
hold the presses! not more than 15 minutes later ... as i was cleaning up the content of my profile before logging off, 1 of the additional 4 with whom i initiated communications these eve has closed me out.

other than other ... today is a cool day - such a variety of reasons for closing out profiles. in addition to the two mentioned earlier (i'm pursuing another relationship ... i want to pursue other matches), the recent closer-outer stated 2 reasons ... i am pursuing another relationship ... i am taking a break from dating.

until the next login:
  • matches still to clickety-clack = 16
  • clickety-clacking = 6 (am waiting for 5 to respond and for 1 to take it to the next step)
  • closed out = 37 (i closed out 2 more this evening)
7 clickety-clack | 16 tbd

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1 Comments:

Blogger JenM said...

Keep up the clickety-clacking.....

Sat May 30, 07:28:00 PM PDT  

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